If you’ve determined that another abortion is not what you want, it’s important to acknowledge that your choice is valid and should be honored. Remember, the decision regarding your pregnancy is yours alone, and no one should coerce you into making a specific choice.

The alternatives available to you are parenting or adoption. Each of these options involves continuing the pregnancy to full term and comes with long-term impact. Being well-informed is key to making a choice that aligns with your future.


Parenting can seem like one of the biggest challenges of your life. Here are some questions to ask yourself when considering it:

  • What kind of support network do I have? Do I have family, friends, or a partner who can assist with childcare and provide emotional support?
  • Am I prepared to make significant lifestyle changes, including alterations to my social life, career, and personal time?
  • Can I meet a child’s emotional, physical, and developmental needs, providing a safe and nurturing environment?
  • Am I ready for the lifelong commitment that comes with being a parent?

You may not have a perfect answer for each of these questions but that doesn’t mean you can’t become a parent. 

Help is available to get you started, including educational parenting classes, support groups, and material resources. Becoming well informed will allow you to gain knowledge from the experience of others.

Caring for Women Center can show you these various resources that can alleviate some of the financial stress of starting a family.


If parenting doesn’t seem like a fit for you, adoption can bring a sense of reassurance and comfort. While it is difficult, as the biological mother, you have the opportunity to select the adoptive parents, playing a pivotal role in your child’s future.

Adoption services are typically offered at no cost to the mother, and you might also receive financial and material assistance. There are three primary types of adoption plans:

  • Open Adoption: In this arrangement, you maintain regular communication with the adoptive family and have a relationship with your child. They will be aware of their origins and your role in their life.
  • Semi-open Adoption: A semi-open adoption allows for indirect contact with the adoptive family, usually mediated through an adoption attorney or agency.
  • Closed Adoption: This option provides the highest level of privacy. In a closed adoption, your identity remains confidential, and there is no contact with the child after adoption. 

Adoption can be an emotional decision, but it can be incredibly fulfilling to know that you’ve provided a family longing for a child with such a precious gift.

Get Support

If you’re deciding between adoption or raising your child, Caring for Women Center is here to support you. We’re equipped to evaluate your circumstances and explore the available resources for parenting or connect you with a trustworthy adoption agency.

Our goal is to aid you in finding the path that’s most suitable for you. Contact us for a free and confidential appointment to talk about your specific needs and the support we can offer. Remember, you’re not in this alone; our dedicated support team is ready to assist you every step of the way.

*This blog is for informational purposes only. This facility is not a licensed medical facility. We do not offer, recommend, or refer for abortions or abortifacients; therefore, we receive no financial gain from your decision. We are committed to providing accurate information about pregnancy options, abortion procedure risks and alternatives, and after-abortion care.